My First Online Date

My first face to face date. She turned out to be at least 8 stones heavier than her picture and and as you'd have difficulty piling that much weight on in any shorter time, her picture on the dating site must have been her in her early 20's. Her online dating profile saying she didn't like liars as she saw no need for it !

I had known something was afoot when she kept asking me for my picture via my mobile (when it is on the dating site) and sent me 3 pictures of herself. 1st one i could see the resemblance wit hher profile picture but she looked a bit older and the last one was somewhat frightening but a shot more of her neck and chin from below....She texted me as I was a couple of miles from her town to say she knew she had pestered me to go out that night, but was now having a fit of nerves. I rang and persuaded her using her own words we were meeting as friends, but she did whine about her "jelly belly" then again what woman who isn't fit doesn't.

This ladies poison was white wine and lemonade and we met in her local (her choice). Nice enough personality but she was into her texting and got me to drive her to the kebab house before dropping her off at home.

She had been less than attentive at times during the date - which was spent sat outside in smokers corner where she could comment on the goings on in the neighbourhood and who was in trouble if they mum caught them etc. Friends let slip about her case of cervical cancer and how she hadn't thought she could have children. She told me about her brother in prison that had stolen a fortune from her and the threats and cash payouts she had had to make to his drug dealers.

Conversation generally was pretty good but she musty have cottoned on to my general lack of interest in her sexually as some of the topics I brought up were not so female friendly. Then again she was getting progressively more drunk and I wasn't because I was driving.

She sure had had bit of a rough time and I felt sorry for her, but her career was on track. I might try and keep in touch with this lady to give her some moral support but maybe thats not going to help her so I need to give it some thought.