Why don't women realize that excessive weight eliminates their potential

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"I have really been baffled about why women are so clueless to understanding that fat is not attractive, and most will be single for ever until they finally do something about it. 


This is a very sensitive topic, but someone needs to speak up. Two-thirds of America are overwewight, and girls on dating sites are no exception. 


I have been emailed by over 500 girls on dating sites over many years, and all 500 were overweight. It is an epidemic. It's the number one reason guys eventually fade off and stop trying. Girls check average on their profile, totally knowing that when they stand in the mirror seconds before taking a shower, it does not look good at all. 


Here is my question: If a single girl is overweight, what happens when their metabolism slows down in later years? What happens when the kids come along? The problem gets worse. All these girls are looking for love and do not realize why they are not finding it. Sure, get defensive and say, "Well, if a guy can't love me for who I am...bla bla bla". 


Let's be real. Rolls and bulges are not attractive and ( for 99% of guys) are a huge turn off. Why want girls just dedicate a small portion of their time to weight training, cardio, and closing their mouths and not eating? 


If you are wondering why your inbox is empty, its because of weight. Who wants a girl that will not be disciplined and balanced in a relationship? 


It's a direct reflection of character. Two choices: #1 Fat leads to depression, which leads to more eating, leading to more depression, and the problem escalates. #2 Work out, feel great- feel great, eat right- eat right- feel more energetic- have an acceptable body. Which one do you choose? Fat is absolutely, positively the number one barrier to finding Love'


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