"Do nothing – Once you’ve made contact with him, it’s his job to follow up with you. You can reply to his calls, his emails, and his texts. You can say yes to him when he wants to make plans. But don’t initiate. A guy who’s crazy about you will let you know thru his efforts."
A guy does not get "crazy" about a woman on a dating site that he hasn't met yet. Something like 40% of women lie about their age, post old pictures etc. and you can't tell a lot about someone until you have met them a few times.
The dynamic of online dating (or otherwise contrived/arranged dates of any kind) is just as likely to make things go slower as it is to speed them up.
Some people put up their guard for one and many have friends and dating advice sites warning them of the perceived dangers as much as they may also be encouraging and enabling the process !
It may take several dates before he's 'crazy" about you. Follow a strategy like this and you will loose the attention of many decent guys that look for mutual respect.
A woman who makes the effort to initiate sometimes and takes personal responsibility for maintaining and developing a dialogue in a relationship is a attractive to modern men.
If you want success, it takes two to Tango.
Saturday, 7 August 2010
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