Second Date Dilema...

Question.

Hi.. I am trying to work out what to do for a 2nd date for someone I dated on the weekend, but I need some help.

I told the woman I like that next time I would like to take you out for dinner. She said 'I would really like that'..
Tonight while chatting I asked her if she liked chinese food and she said it's ok.
I then asked her what are some places that she likes to eat out at?...
And she said 'I don't go out much'....

I asked her then 'what are some places that you have tried there food before and you really liked''... She said Í don't really like take away I mostly like home cooked meals or hospital foods (cause she works at one as a radiotherapist)

So I am scratching my head as to what we can do for a 2nd date I need some help what else could I offer or do for her something that is nice and thoughtful for her.

Reply 1

Most times if you tell a woman (either when she asks directly or when you pick her up) "ok babe- I know this great little Chinese bistro called "Mai Long Dong"...have you have been there?

barring her saying she really doesn't like Long Dong's because she got sick last time had their food in her mouth, she's gonna be fine with it.

just be a man and take charge, yet be open and have options...

for all you know- Mai Long Dong could have been her favorite place that she and an ex loved to dine at...

Reply 2

"Sounds like your dating a woman Paul.
1. How about dinner out?
2. Great I would love that...I love dinner out.
3. You like Chinese?
4. No. Hate it.
5. You like Mexican?
6. No. Terrible...very fatty...not good for you.
7. What kind of food out do you like?
8. Actually, I don't like eating food out at all.
9. ahh...what??
10. No, I like home cooked meals.
....never mind, I have an appointment for a labotomy, where they are going to severe a part of my brain....lets have this conversation after that procedure.

Anyway, what I think you were suppose to say is: "Ok great, forget the dinner out then, I'll make you a home cooked meal." "How about Veal Scallopini, with Linguini and white clam sauce? I heard clams are really good for the after digestion part. You bring dessert...my favorite part."



You can still do it. Get everything ready at the house there. When yo go to pick her up, take her to your place. Have a coat and hat at the door. Act the part of the Matre De as soon as you get there, tell her you have a special table waiting for her, sit her down, light some candles. Pop open a glass of wine and pour a glass for her. Have a pre-printed "no-choice" menu. Offer it to her and tell her your going to go into the kitchen and put her order in.

Have a nice movie and some popcorn for later on...with a snuggle blanket.

Mai Long Dong's...nice one."