"I once dated a woman who had her breast removed because of cancer. It was never an issue with me. I had accepted her as a whole person. She kept shooting herself in the foot because she could not understand how it was not an issue with me. I was able to look past it and see her as a beautiful woman, although, I did understand it was a life altering event. The reason we did not make it was not the fact of her breast, but she endedup being way to clingy, I had to call her twenty times a day, constantly telling her something nice, the minute I didn't, my phone would burn up. I couldn't get any work done.
In the end, guess what the reason she figured we didn't make it was, that's righ t, her breast.
My point is, do not make any of your self percieved short commings be the forefront of all discussion. If he accepts you for who you are, then accept what he is telling you. If you have an issue with the weight and he accepts you, from then on, the weight is only your problem, do not constantly ask him what he thinks about your weight."
From a forum Post
Monday, 20 September 2010
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